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General Questions

Are children invited?
Our wedding is child-free, except for family members or children we have explicitly invited. If you have a baby (under 2) and childcare isn’t feasible, please reach out so we can accommodate.

Is there parking at the venue?
Yes, ample parking is available at the venue.

Will transportation be provided?
No, we are not providing transportation, but you can find details on getting to the castle and nearby accommodation on our Travel & Stay page.

Can I bring a plus one?
Due to space constraints, we can only accommodate plus ones who have been explicitly invited.

What’s the weather like in July?
It’s usually warm, but some parts of the celebration will be outdoors, so we recommend bringing a light shawl or jacket in case it cools down in the evening.

Will the wedding be indoors or outdoors?

  • Friday: Our traditional ceremony and welcome party will be outdoors all evening, weather permitting.

  • Saturday: The church ceremony is indoors, followed by an outdoor cocktail hour and a mix of indoor and outdoor celebrations for the rest of the night.

Friday Night: Traditional Ceremony & Welcome Party

What time does it start?
Please arrive promptly at 5 PM. The ceremony will begin at 6 PM.

What should I wear?
The dress code is Asoebi (traditional Nigerian attire) or formal cocktail. Wear any shade of green or white. Please refer to the Dress the Part page for more details.

Will food be served?
Absolutely! We’re having an open-fire, meat-heavy feast, so come hungry.

Do I have to wear Asoebi?
The simple answer is no, but we’d love for everyone to take part. If you’re not wearing Asoebi, wear something green or white and pick up a gele (headwrap) or fila (traditional hat) to top off your outfit.

How do I order Asoebi fabric?
To order our fabric, select the option in the RSVP form, and we’ll be in touch with next steps.

Will someone help me tie my gele or fila?
Yes! Someone will be on hand to help style it on the day.

Any hair recommendations for ladies wearing a gele?
Most hairstyles work perfectly, except for a low bun, as the gele needs to be tied at the back.

6. What should I bring with me?

  • $1 dollar bills for money spraying on the dance floor

  • Something warm to wear if it gets nippy at night (we’ll be outside all evening, weather permitting)

  • Sunglasses for vibes

Saturday: Wedding Day

What time does the ceremony start?
The ceremony begins at 1 PM. Please arrive promptly, as guests will not be able to enter the church once the ceremony starts.

What should I wear?
The dress code is Black Tie— suits and occasion dresses.
Think timeless, elegant, and polished — but with space to bring your own style.

  • For men: A tailored suit in any colour. Tie or bow tie optional.

  • For women: An occasion dress — midi or full-length. Choose something you feel great in.

(Ladies, there will be a short walk from the church to the castle (3–4 minutes), and cocktail hour will be on the lawn. Heel stoppers will be available to keep you steady on the grass.)

Stuck on what to wear? Drop Balbine a message on WhatsApp: 07927 432 128

What happens after the ceremony?

  • Cocktail Hour: Join us on the lawn for drinks, games, and live grilling stations.

  • Reception: Dinner and dancing to follow.

What will be served for dinner?
We will be providing one set menu for dinner. If you have dietary restrictions, please indicate them on the RSVP form.

When does the bar open?
The bar will open at 8 PM, and drinks will be flowing all night.

Venue & Logistics

Where is the wedding taking place?
Our wedding will be held at Berkeley Castle, a historic venue on the edge of the Cotswolds in Gloucestershire, England.

Is the venue accessible for guests with mobility needs?
Yes, but please let us know in advance if you require assistance so we can make arrangements.

Will there be walking involved?
All of the wedding activities will take place within the castle grounds and church, which share the same estate, so transportation within the grounds is not needed.

There will be a 3–4 minute walk from the church to the castle, and cocktail hour will take place on the lawn. Heel stoppers will be available for those wearing heels.

Can I take photos during the ceremony?
No photos will be permitted inside the church. Guests are asked to put phones on airplane mode and to respect the strict no-phone policy during the ceremony.

Will my photo be taken?
We would love to capture this moment in time with a professional, editorial-style portrait of you, so come dressed to impress.

Gifts & RSVP

Do you have a wedding registry?

We don’t have a gift registry, but if you’d like to contribute and feel comfortable giving a cash gift, we would be truly grateful as we start our life together.

More details will be shared closer to the time.

When is the RSVP deadline?

The RSVP deadline is 21st March, as we need to finalise Asoebi and accessory numbers. Please let us know if you have any issues with this deadline.